No one is completely perfect to step into a perfect love, so these 8 principles can help you to improve yourself in love, especially women.
Someone once said that love, once started, is hard to stop. Saying this to understand that love cannot and probably never can belong to one's rational part. Not just instinct, love is probably more poetic and sweeter.
But if someone only uses their heart to love, letting themselves drift with their emotions, when that love is suddenly lost, it will definitely leave a lot of hurt that is difficult to overcome. So, love is like the way we live every day, too much emotion becomes soft and weak. On the contrary, too much reason will become calculating and pragmatic. Use both of those things, and you will find that your life is gradually changing in a more positive direction.
Let's take a look at 8 rules of love for women:
1. Don't lose faith in love once because of a breakdown. One bad man cannot be defined for all other men. You think like that, it will be bad for yourself, and the other bad guy is very happy because he can make you can't love anyone else for the rest of your life but him.
2. Accept that no one is perfect, everything can only be relative. When you love someone for their strengths, you also have to accept the remaining flaws. Only then will the two be tolerant enough for each other, respect and go together for a long time.
3. Don't be stubborn, don't hold back. Because clinging only makes you look more pathetic, it doesn't change their heart.
4. Men who cheat, should consider carefully before deciding to forgive. Someone once said that a man who cheats even once is forever a waste. The person who can betray you once will probably also have a second time. Don't be gullible, don't be soft-hearted, you will be the one to get hurt.
5. A good man will know that his wife and children and family are always the first priority. If a man can't do this, reconsider. Because in fact, there is no more worthy reason to leave behind a wife, children and family.
6. Loneliness is inevitable, whether you have a family or a lover. Each person, always has hidden hidden corners of loneliness that only they themselves can fully understand. So a person is not only lonely, but also needs to be lonely. To understand yourself, and love yourself more.
7. Dependent women buy their own lanyards. Happiness only comes when there is freedom, freedom only comes when there is independence. It's an inseparable chain, whether you admit it or not. So, whether it's money or love, give yourself a way back, it's not because you don't trust each other enough, but because you want to reduce the burden on both of you, and respect the other's work.
8. Love must come from both sides to balance and maintain long-term. Don't give anyone "free" your life, and don't use someone else's life "for free", because both of these things only end up suffering.